Pumpkin Spice Season

We bounce between chilly bike rides, soccer schedules, and dressing for every kind of weather as a wild effervescence reboots our spirits—everything feels illuminated! I think the sunlight is the most spectacular part of this season—brilliant afternoons that dapple riots of color against cobalt blue skies…

Adventure: Tucson

…Jeff rode right on top of this fat boy—yikes—so be ready alert. Ironically, the sound that the flywheel makes on a bike sounds almost exactly like the rattle of the snake’s keratin, so that provided a kind of freaky adrenaline rush during the rides….

Relationship Reboot

All human interaction is gonna have stuff that stinks to deal with. If we can sharpen our skills and pour conflict through the composting process of our hearts and minds, we can refresh the result into something rich with possibility.

People Pleasing Perfection

If the energy feels selfless and easy, a flow situation free of expectations, it’s probably an authentically generous act. If it feels complicated—if resources of time, money, or convenience are being overly compromised—or if boundaries are being crossed, then it’s more likely a People Pleasing situation.

Right Ladder, Wrong Wall

Articulating our life purpose is simple: we were put on this earth to enjoy our lives. Period. To make manifest of this, each of us possesses a unique purpose—it’s our gift to humanity. The more of us who live in this conscious knowledge and make a practice of purposeful living, the more divine our collective vibrational energy can be.

Booze Clues #2

It took me twenty years to quit drinking overnight. I am four years alcohol free, and I have never looked back. My only regret about quitting is that I didn’t do it sooner…

The Pinocchio Project

We need to notice these small lie infractions: they are both valuable clues and dangerous warnings because they are part of a chronic pattern of toxic behavior. Lying is a way to stay emotionally unavailable, create drama, or play the victim…

Feeling Bullish

Traditionally querencia means the spot in the bullfight arena that is taken by the bull for a defensive stand in a fight. It’s the place the bullfighter dreads the bull finding, because the bull will win if it finds this sweet spot of safety—this is the place where the bull harnesses all its desire and life force to survive…

The Power of Four

Holding grudges was my way of staying safe and feeling right. There’s nothing like a strong shot of indignation to feed the fires of self-righteousness …Problem is, that kind of energy grows like a cancer inside our cells, blocking the energy flow of goodness—how much stale energy and anger can we carry until all the exits are blocked?

7 Things I Learned This Spring

Repetitive rounds of glee at the expense of others discomfort or loss is disingenuous at best, and destructive at worst. This is the platform that FOX news was built on and the virus our ‘leadership’ spreads on a daily basis.

The Values Vault

Personally, I don’t think we have been living our core values as a culture, or as global citizens; so much feels strangled right now, from Congress to our climate. Collectively and individually we are being given this time to reflect, refresh, and reignite our true soul’s purpose on this earth: how to live at our highest good.